Beautiful, Sexy, and Feminine Self Attract Men?

How important beauty and sexy femininity are to single women as they seek to find the right man to marry?

Probably most of single women would like to be more beautiful or at least somewhat beautiful. But how many of them are making their beauty one of their highest priorities? It may be politically incorrect to say, “I have as a high priority to make myself more beautiful, sexy, and feminine every day.” The P.C. police and some feminists might see such a goal as self-absorbed, shallow, and selfish, or, again, as too “submissive” or “surrendering” to what a man likes to see in a woman.

It may be politically incorrect to say that a woman should develop these qualities in herself. However, know that a nice, sweet, but unbeautiful, unsexy, and unfeminine woman may spend many lonely, unhappy years being politically correct and unnoticed by most men. I don’t want any woman to go unnoticed as a woman, as I did for so long. It hurts too much and too deeply. I know this is true. I experienced it. It hurts me even now as I remember it so many years later.

In the context of finding the right man for a woman to marry and finding him in as short a time as possible, she must be realistic. The reality is that men are attracted to a beautiful or pretty woman more than they are attracted to a plain woman.

Look around you every day at all the other women you see. Then ask yourself, “Do many of these women seem to be making it a priority to be beautiful, sexy, and feminine as they live their day-to-day lives?” It seems obvious to me that many do not. Despite the fact that most men require beauty and a sexy femininity from a woman in order to be attracted to her in the first place, few women try hard enough.